The Flame
published Thursday, October 30, 2008

The times for the events from Sunday onward are listed in Pacific Standard Time. This is the weekend we return to PST!

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The Marriage of
Rev. Gregory and Mr. Stillman Stewart
Sunday, November 2 at 11 am in the Church Sanctuary
Stillman and
Gregory Stewart

The Honorable Mark Leno and The Reverend Dorsey Blake, presiding

You are cordially invited to attend the marriage of The Reverend Gregory Stewart and Stillman Stewart as witnessed by their five sons and the Congregation.

Participants in the service will include Sam and Julia Thoron, Rev. Doug Fitch, Angeli Fitch, and the assembled friends and Members of the First Unitarian Universalist Society of San Francisco.

The public is invited to the wedding. Please bring your friends to share our joy.

A Reception Honoring the Newlyweds
Sunday All Over the Church
Celebrate the wedding of Stillman Stewart and Senior Minister The Reverend Gregory Stewart at a reception immediately following their wedding.

We'll have music, food, friends, and frolicking!

Stillman and Greg have been together for 28 years. But, you'll get to party with them in their first moments as a legally married couple!

If you'd like to help build their wedding cake made of cupcakes, just bake or buy your contributions and bring them to the church Sunday morning. Please let Lucy Smith know today that you're bringing a donation so she knows how much to expect. Lucy can be reached at 510-528-8540 or by email.

California Assembly Member Mark Leno
Sunday Forum in the Martin Luther King Room at 9:15
California Assembly Member Mark Leno from Karen Melander-Magoon

California Assembly Member Mark Leno will speak on the propositions and issues on the San Francisco ballot at the breakfast Forum.

Elected to the Assembly in 2002, Assemblyman Leno represents the 13th District which includes San Francisco. He is one of the first two openly gay men elected to the Assembly. He currently chairs the Assembly Appropriations Committee, and he also serves on the Election and Redistricting and Labor Committees. Prior to his election to the Assembly, Leno served on the San Francisco Board of Supervisors from April 1998 to November 2002.

The free program will start at 15 minutes earlier than normal, at 9:30. Come at 9:15 for conversation, coffee, and (for a slight charge) a light breakfast. A basket collecting questions for Assemblyman Leno will be at the entrance of the Martin Luther King Room.

A Vigil in Defense of Marriage for All
Starting Monday (November 3) at 7 pm on the front Steps
from Peter Olandt, Ministerial Intern and
Laura Hadden, Young Adult Group

Join in community Monday (November 3) starting at 7 pm for a vigil celebrating Marriage Equality. All are welcome to gather on the front steps for music before processing inside together for a 7:30 service.

It will be a time for prayer, music, community, and joy.

The service will mark the beginning of the Society's 24-hour Marriage Vigil. Clergy will be available all night and all day until poll closing time, 8 pm, on Election Day (November 4) to marry anyone wishing to wed.

At 9 pm Monday the Marriage Vigil will screen the film Inlaws and Outlaws. The movie weaves together the true stories of couples and singles both gay and straight into a collective narrative that is hilarious and heartbreaking.

The film's producer, Larry Schliesinger, will be present at the Vigil. He and members of the Young Adult Group will host a reception.

Sunday School Classes Join the Wedding
from Betty Skwarek
Acting Director of Religious Education

Children and youth will celebrate Rev. Greg Stewart and Stillman Stewart's wedding with the Congregation. They are invited to join the wedding procession and scatter confetti in the aisle before the grooms make their entrances.

Religious Education activities will begin at 10 with a sing-along in the Chapel. Participants will sing favorite songs, get out the instruments to play along, and practice music for the wedding.

As always, care for children up to age 5 begins in Early Childhood Room 1 at 9:45. Preschool instruction begins at 11. Preschool children may join the other children for the wedding procession.

Stand on the Side of Love
Movement by Penny Sablove from Rob Packenham and
the Unitarian Universalists for Marriage Equality

The outcome of Proposition 8, the Marriage Ban, is too close to call and opponents need one final push to get out the vote and mobilize supportive voters with on-street actions.

Society Members and friends will hand out No On 8 materials and hold up signs in high visibility areas around San Francisco. Please join fellow Unitarian Universalist volunteers and sign up for a shift between Thursday and Election Day (November 4th).

To sign up, visit the NoOn8 site and enter the Zip code where you want to volunteer. Let other Unitarian Universalists know you've signed up by emailing Rob.

Help get the word out that Prop 8 is wrong, it's unfair, and it must be defeated.

Interfaith Service in Opposition to Proposition 8
Saturday (November 1) 11 am at Glide Church, 330 Ellis Street
Marriage Equality Service Saturday at 11 at Glide Memorial Church, 330 Ellis
from Rev. Rev. Lindi Ramsden and the
Unitarian Universalist Legislative Ministry

Come to a major, uplifting celebration that will help you get ready to take it to the streets Saturday at 11 am at Glide Memorial United Methodist Church, 330 Ellis Street.

This multi-faith, multi-ethnic service will include powerful and moving testimony, prayers, and music as communities of faith from across the Bay Area gather to affirm marriage equality.

A Get Out the Vote training will follow. Join in as faith communities say "Yes" to equality and justice, and "No On Prop 8!"

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Good and Welfare
We send healing wishes to Millicent Rutherford who is resting comfortably at home after a fall. She would enjoy telephone calls or written messages. She and husband John are looking forward to a visit from their daughter in mid-November.

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Samhain
from Nancy Buffum, Pagan Interest Circle (PICT)

Samhain (SAH-win), October 31, is the time of the dying of the year, when the veil thins between the world of the Dead and the world of the Living. Passage is possible between the worlds. Through the veil, our Beloved Dead return to us. Through the veil come the energies of life renewing itself.

The Pagan Interest Circle invites you to remember your Beloved Dead, ancestors known or unknown, and those who have passed recently; and to honor and celebrate the Newly Born in your life, whether a new child or a new endeavor, new achievement or new love.

You may write messages and names and post pictures on the two Altar Boards at the entrance to the Thomas Starr King Room: one for the Beloved Dead, and a Welcoming Altar to loved ones and things that are newly born. The Boards will be up through November 9.

What is remembered lives.

Big Plans for a Big Hospital
Cathedral Hill Meeting 7 pm tonight (October 30) at St. Mary's
from George Mayer

California Pacific Medical Center (CPMC) will present their latest proposal for their Cathedral Hill Medical Center Campus to the Cathedral Hill Neighborhood Association tonight (October 30) at St. Mary's, 1111 Gough Street. The very large proposed building would be located across from the Unitarian Universalist church and would significantly alter the character of the neighborhood.

CPMC's presentation will be in the meeting room on the lower level, and refreshments will be provided.

You are invited to bring your questions and concern to this free forum.

phone: 415 776-4580

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