The Flame
published Thursday, December 18, 2008

The Flame will be published on Wednesday next week.
That edition will include the latest information on the 4:45 Christmas Eve service as well as other celebrations and community news.

Countdown to Chaos (A Holiday Survival Guide)
Sunday, December 21 at 11 am in the Church Sanctuary
service conducted by Rev. Gregory Stewart

The winter holidays hold up the stories of our lives to the mirror of The Story of the holiday or holy day we choose to celebrate during the time of year when days are shortest and nights are longest. Holiday chaosBut our own stories can easily be muffled by festive gatherings and families griping, rituals and routines, tree-trimming and candle lighting, and all of the awe and agony that is the reason for the season.

Each year I say to myself, "I refuse to get crushed by the holiday spirit!" only to find myself straining under its terrible weight.

Then when the Big Day arrives, I am completely calm, in contrast to the preceding holiday haste.

I'm left to wonder, "How can I embody the spirit of the holidays during the days and hours before the holiday?" This Sunday I'll share stories that inspire us to rise above the holiday hype to help us regain both the momentum and meaning for a tired, and perhaps outdated holiday season.

Joining me on the pulpit will be Pastoral Care Minister Rev. Fred Rabidoux, Faithful Fools Outreach Minister Denis Paul, Ministerial Intern Peter Olandt, and Worship Associate Claire Weber. Music of the season will be shared by our choir.

We also will rejoice to receive new members into the Society, which makes this a great Sunday to invite a friend who might also resonate with a lively, liberal, and reasonable faith.

— Rev. Gregory Stewart

Holiday Sing-Along in the Martin Luther King Room
Religious Education Joins the Forum Starting at 10
Children's Choir at the Holiday Faire from Betty Skwarek
Acting Director of Religious Education and
Karen Melander-Magoon

Come and enjoy singing the old holiday songs at Forum with Erich Sylvester, Eric Shackelford, the Folk Orchestra, and friends.

Cookies, treats, and music will be served up all in one place!

Religious Education program participants will follow-up the signing with Christmas crafts in the Chapel at 10:45 and a dress rehearsal for the Nativity tableau at 11:45. People in the tableau will have a second dress rehearsal in the Sanctuary following the service.


An updated version of the Adult Religious Education brochure is now available. Copies are also at church and will be in the January edition of Firstnews. The 2008-9 brochure for the Children's Religious Education program is available online, too.

Barbara Bourns
Honoring Barabara Bourns
We are saddened by the death Tuesday of Barbara Bourns. She has been a friend to many and an effective participant in the communities of the Society.

Barbara died while being treated at Kaiser Hospital for lung cancer.

We extend our sympathy to her friends and family.

We will share memorial service information when it is available.

 

Botanicals: Combining Science and Art
Artist Reception Sunday after the Service in the Kings Gallery
from Botanicals from Liz Breger

The work of many artists will fill both gallery rooms Sunday after the worship service.

These paintings of flower and leaf forms are both artistically pleasing and scientifically accurate in their rendering.

Everyone is invited to see the new group show of Botanical paintings and meet the artists in the Kings Gallery. Refreshments will be served.

The show continues through Sunday, January 25.

from the show Botanicals

Good and Welfare
Friends and family of Hilda Fleming will gather Saturday (December 20) in the Thomas Starr King Room at 2 pm for a memorial service. Hilda died at home earlier this month after an extended illness. She was 89.
flower



Dr. Karen Melander-Magoon's talk, "Catch a Falling Star", at the Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of the North Bay was noted in the St. Helena Star. Congratulations, Karen!

Year-End Countdown
from Grace Lam, Bookkeeper

Many members and friends pay their annual pledge in full in December, or make special donations.

If you would like to be sure your donation is credited for the 2008 tax year, please be sure it is in church office no later than December 28.

Please call the church office or email bookkeeper Grace Lam for more information, or to arrange for a credit card payment or stock transfer.

More Fun at the Faire
Stirring the Pot
photos by John Steele

The Society's Holiday Faire mixed together fun and community both during the party and during the preparation and behind-the-scenes work.

John captured views of both celebrants and happy elves preparing the feast.

 

Gluttony
Alison Rittger, Glutton
Last week's Sunday service on deadly sins for lively liberals focused on the vice gluttony.

Contrarian Worship Associate Alison Rittger stood at the lectern and told the Congregation she's all for gluttony.

 

Allyne Bequest Circle Donors Elevated and Feted
Artist at the Holiday Faire from Joan Rost

The Congregation thanked the forty-four members and friends who have confirmed as requested by the Planned Giving Committee their intention to provide for the Society in their estate plans.

Sister pins were distributed as a token of appreciation during last week's worship service. Some of those applauded are shown in the Sonnie Willis photographs accompanying this article.

Other circle members have been honored previously, and additional members will be receiving pins the in near future.

The Allyne Bequest Circle is named in honor of the Allyne sisters whose generous bequest stimulated the Sanctuary refurbishment and the Church Center completion in 1969.

additional honorees

Mike Thomas Remembered
Plaque honoring Mike Thomas Last Sunday the Society paid tribute to long-time member and staff, Mike Thomas, who passed away on Christmas Day, 2006.

Reiko Lane dedicated the Recessional, Toccata from the Organ Symphony No. 5, to Mike — he loved the organ and hand-built an electronic octave of the pipes. A memorial fund was designated by the Thomas family for sound improvement and organ maintenance.

A plaque honoring Mike was dedicated at the back of the Sanctuary where Mike often stood to monitor sound.

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